Water-Based vs Silicone vs Oil Lube: Which Should You Use?

Lube makes almost everything more comfortable and more enjoyable, but the type matters. Water-based, silicone-based, hybrid and oil-based lubricants behave differently with toys, condoms and skin. Here's how to choose the right one for what you're doing.

The quick answer

• Not sure? Choose water-based. It works with every toy material and with latex condoms, and it washes off easily.
• For longer sessions, water play or anal: silicone-based lasts much longer, but check it's compatible with your toys.
• For massage only: oil-based, but keep it away from latex condoms.

Water-based lube

The most versatile choice. Water-based lubes feel closest to natural lubrication and rinse off with water.

• Good with: all toy materials, including silicone toys; latex and non-latex condoms.
• Downsides: it dries out faster, so you may need to reapply (a few drops of water can revive it); it doesn't last in the shower.
• Look out for: if you have sensitive skin, a simpler formula is often more comfortable. Some people react to glycerin or to warming and tingling additives; check the ingredients on the product page.

Silicone-based lube

Silky and very long-lasting. It doesn't absorb into the skin, so a little goes a long way.

• Good with: latex condoms; glass, steel and hard plastic toys; water play, because it doesn't wash away.
• Be careful with silicone toys: some silicone lubes can affect the surface of silicone toys over time. As a general rule, use water-based lube with silicone toys, or test a small hidden area first if the toy maker allows it.
• Downsides: it needs soap to wash off, and spills on tiles or bath floors are slippery.

Hybrid lube

Hybrids mix a water base with some silicone for a creamier feel that lasts longer than water-based lube but washes off more easily than silicone. Check the product details for toy and condom compatibility, as formulas vary.

Oil-based lube

Rich and long-lasting, and lovely for massage.

• Not compatible with latex condoms: oil weakens latex and can cause condoms to break. Polyurethane and some other non-latex condoms are compatible; check the condom packaging.
• Oils can be harder to wash out of fabrics and off the body, and some people find they don't suit them for internal use.

Lube for anal play

The anus doesn't make its own lubrication, so lube isn't optional. Many people prefer a thicker water-based gel or a silicone-based lube because they last longer. Avoid numbing or desensitising lubes for anal play: discomfort is a useful signal to slow down. Use plenty, reapply often, and go slowly.

Lube with condoms and toys: a cheat sheet

• Latex condoms: water-based or silicone-based. Not oil.
• Silicone toys: water-based (safest default).
• Glass, steel and hard plastic toys: any type.
• TPE, PVC and jelly toys: water-based.

Sensitive skin

If a lube stings or itches, stop using it and wash with water. Fragrance, flavourings, warming or cooling agents and some preservatives are common triggers. Patch test a new lube on your inner arm first, and choose simpler formulas. If irritation continues, or you have recurring infections, speak to a pharmacist or GP.

Frequently asked

Can I use lube with condoms?

Yes, and it reduces the risk of a condom tearing. Use water-based or silicone-based lube with latex condoms, never oil-based.

Can I use silicone lube with a silicone toy?

It's best avoided as a rule, because some silicone lubes can affect silicone toys' surface over time. Water-based lube is the safe choice for silicone toys.

How much should I use?

More than you think, especially for anal play or with toys. Start with a generous amount and reapply whenever things start to feel less slippery.

Is lube a sign something's wrong?

Not at all. Natural lubrication varies with hormones, medication, stress, age and time of the month. Lube is simply a comfort product, like moisturiser.

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