Remote-controlled vibrators

How to choose a remote control vibrator

A remote control vibrator separates the toy from its controls, so you can change settings without reaching for the toy, or pass the remote to a partner. That makes remote control sex toys a favourite for hands-free solo play and for couples who enjoy anticipation.

Remote or app?

Most toys here come with a wireless remote: simple, no phone needed, and designed for use within the same room. An app controlled vibrator pairs with a smartphone instead, and some apps let a partner control the toy from further away over the internet, which is popular for long-distance relationships. Check each product page to see how a toy is controlled and its stated range.

Wearable vibrators

A wearable vibrator is designed to stay in place while you move. Panty vibrators, such as the Mina Veil, sit in your underwear for external stimulation; love eggs, like the Tabooboo Take Me Back To Bed or Loving Joy Remote Controlled Vibrating Egg, are worn internally. Look for a secure shape and a retrieval cord on internal toys.

Remote toys for every body

The range goes well beyond eggs. Toosh remote butt plugs come in silicone and metal, with vibrating, rotating and thrusting options. Rev-Pro and the LELO Hugo 2 are remote prostate massagers, and the Mina Echo is a remote strapless strap-on. Anything for anal use needs a flared base.

Couples play and discretion

Handing a partner the remote is a fun way to build anticipation, at home or out together. Agree boundaries and a way to stop first, and keep it consensual between the two of you: play should never involve anyone who hasn't agreed to it, and should always stay lawful and private.

Material and charging

Many of these toys are silicone, rechargeable and waterproof; some, like the Loving Joy remote vibrating dildos, are TPE, which is more porous and needs careful cleaning. Check each product page for materials.

Shopping for two? See our couples' range, browse butt plugs, and pick up a water-based lubricant.

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