Couples

How to choose sex toys for couples

The right couples sex toy is the one you both feel curious about. Some are worn during sex, some hand the controls to a partner, and some are simply a playful way to try something new. Start with a conversation, then choose the toy.

Talk first, shop second

Sharing what you'd like to try, and what you wouldn't, is part of the fun. Agree that either of you can pause or stop at any point, and keep checking in.

Remote and app-controlled toys

App-controlled vibrators such as the Svakom Phoenix Neo 2 let a partner take over the settings from across the room or, through the app, from much further away.

Toys to use together

Some toys are shaped to stimulate both partners at once, like the Doc Johnson Platinum Gal Pal, and wearable vibrators can stay in place during sex. Strap-on harnesses and double-ended dildos open up new options for any couple, whatever your bodies.

Cock rings

A stretchy silicone cock ring sits at the base of the penis for a snug, held feeling, and vibrating versions add a buzz both partners can feel. Start with a stretchy or adjustable ring, and take it off after around 20 minutes.

Games and light bondage

Not every couples toy buzzes. Sex dice, card games like Sexmatch, a blindfold or a pair of furry handcuffs are low-pressure ways to add play to a night in. Beginner bondage kits bundle several pieces in one box, so you can discover what you both enjoy.

Materials and care

Product pages list each material where the maker provides it. Silicone is easy to clean and pairs well with water-based lube. Porous materials need more careful cleaning and are best used with a condom if shared.

Ready to explore? Browse our remote vibrators, pick a sex game for couples, and keep a water-based lubricant close by.

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