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How to choose sex toys for men

Male sex toys have come a long way from novelty gifts. Our range of sex toys for men covers masturbators, prostate massagers, cock rings, penis sleeves and pumps from REV, Svakom, LELO, Loving Joy and Bathmate. Choose by the kind of sensation you are after, then by material and features.

Male masturbators and strokers

For solo play, a male masturbator is the natural starting point. Reusable cups and textured strokers are affordable and simple to use, while vibrating, heating and thrusting models such as the Svakom Alex Neo 2 and LELO F1S V3 add motors and app control.

Prostate massagers

The prostate is sensitive to pressure, and many people enjoy stimulating it. A prostate massager is curved to reach it, with a flared base for safety. Rev-Pro designs range from a classic shape to remote-controlled vibrating models. Go slowly and use plenty of lube.

Cock rings

Cock rings sit around the base of the penis, or the penis and testicles, for a snug, held feeling, and vibrating rings add a buzz a partner can feel too. Start with stretchy or adjustable silicone, leave metal rings until you know your size, and remove any ring after around 20 minutes.

Penis sleeves

A penis sleeve slips over the penis to change the shape, length or texture a partner feels. Rev-Sleeves offers realistic silicone designs, and some sleeves have a ball loop to help hold them in place.

Penis pumps

Penis pumps use gentle vacuum for sensation play, from bulb and trigger pumps to water-based designs from Bathmate. Read the instructions, build pressure slowly and stop if anything hurts. Any change in size is temporary.

Materials and cleaning

Silicone is non-porous and easy to clean. Many strokers use soft TPE, which feels realistic but is porous, so wash it with warm water, dry it thoroughly and replace it when it shows wear.

Shopping for two? Browse our couples' range, explore butt plugs, and keep a lubricant to hand.

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