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Strap-ons

Harnesses, dildos and complete sets for whoever's wearing it. For any body and any pairing: comfort and a secure fit first, size second.

12 products

How to choose a strap-on

Two parts matter: a harness that fits and stays put, and a dildo that suits the moment. Buy them as a matched set or build your own.

A harness that fits

Look for adjustable straps and a snug hold that won't pinch over a long session. Jockstrap styles feel stable; thong styles sit closer to the body. Check the size guide on each product, and adjust the straps so the harness feels secure without pinching.

The O-ring

The ring holds the dildo. Swappable rings let one harness take different girths, so it can grow with your collection.

A flared base

The dildo needs a flat, flared base to sit securely in the ring. Check that a dildo is listed as harness-compatible and that its base suits your harness's O-ring before buying.

Start manageable

Girth is felt more than length, and control matters more than size. Start with something comfortable, use plenty of lube, and size up together.

Something for the wearer

Some harnesses hold a bullet vibrator against the wearer, so the pleasure goes both ways.

Frequently asked

Are strap-ons only for pegging?

Not at all. A strap-on works for any pairing, for vaginal or anal play. Who wears it is entirely up to you.

Is a strap-on set better for beginners?

Usually, yes. A matched set takes the guesswork out of fit, because the dildo is made for the harness.

Can I use my own dildo with a harness?

Often, if the dildo is listed as harness-compatible and its base fits your harness's O-ring. Check both products' details before buying.

How do I keep it secure?

Tighten the straps so the harness sits firm without pinching, seat the base fully in the ring, and find the right height and angle before you begin.

How do I clean a strap-on?

Wash the dildo with warm water and unscented soap or toy cleaner after each use. Hand-wash fabric harnesses and let them air-dry.

Is delivery discreet?

Always. Plain, unbranded packaging. UK delivery is free over £50 and £5.99 below that.