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A butt plug, or anal plug, is designed to be inserted and left in place, giving a sense of fullness on its own or alongside other play. The shape is simple: a tapered tip, a wider bulb, a narrow neck and a base. Getting the size, material and base right matters more than anything else.
The flared base is essential
Anything used anally must have a flared base or handle that stays outside the body. Check for one on any plug you choose, and never use an object that isn't designed for anal play.
Start small, or start with a kit
If you're new, begin with the smallest size. A beginner kit lets you progress at your own pace: the Loving Joy Butt Plug Training Kit includes four plugs, and Toosh's sets of three come in metal or silicone. The Loving Joy Silicone Anal Plug also comes in small, medium and large.
Choose your material
Silicone is non-porous, soft and warms quickly; the dual-density SilexD plugs have a firmer core with a softer outer layer. Metal, such as Toosh's and Precious Metals' jewelled plugs, is smooth and weighty and can be warmed or cooled. The Blush Jet plugs are PVC, a firmer, more budget-friendly material; check the product details and clean carefully.
Vibrating and remote-control plugs
Plugs such as the Loving Joy Swirl have a removable bullet, while Toosh's remote-controlled plugs add vibration, rotation or thrusting that you or a partner can adjust.
Lube, always
The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so use plenty. Water-based lube suits every material; avoid silicone lube with silicone toys. Our guide to water-based vs silicone lube explains why.
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Frequently asked
What's the difference between a butt plug and an anal plug?
Nothing; they're two names for the same thing. Both describe a toy with a tapered tip, a narrow neck and a flared base, designed to stay in place.
What size butt plug should I start with?
The smallest one you can find. A small plug or a training kit lets you relax and build up gradually, which is usually more comfortable and more enjoyable.
Do I need lube?
Yes, always, and plenty of it. Use water-based lube with silicone toys; metal plugs work with water- or silicone-based lube.
How long can I wear a butt plug?
Start with a few minutes and build up. Follow the product's instructions, remove it if anything feels uncomfortable, and speak to a doctor if you have any medical concerns.
How do I clean a butt plug?
Warm water and unscented soap, or a toy cleaner, before and after use. Remove any bullet first, dry fully and store separately.
Is delivery discreet?
Always. Orders arrive in plain, unbranded packaging. UK delivery is free over £50 and £5.99 below that.