How to choose a dildo
Choosing well comes down to three things: material, shape and base. Get those right and the rest is preference.
Material first
Silicone is the one most people fall for: non-porous, easy to clean and skin-soft. Glass is firmer and weighted, and lovely for temperature play. Some realistic dildos use TPE or PVC blends, which feel softer and cost less but are more porous, so they need more careful cleaning and are best used with a condom if shared. Each product page lists its material, so check before you buy.
Shape you'll feel
A gentle upward curve finds the G-spot without hunting for it. Realistic or abstract is taste, not function. For most people, girth is felt long after length is forgotten.
A base that earns its place
A flared base is essential for anal use. A suction cup opens up hands-free play, and a harness-compatible base turns a dildo into a strap-on.
Start smaller than you think
Begin smaller than your imagination suggests, go slowly, and use more water-based lube than feels necessary. You can always be braver later.
Want buzz as well as shape? Try our vibrating dildos or realistic dildos.
Thinking about hands-free? See how to use a suction cup dildo.
Frequently asked
What's the best material for a dildo?
Silicone is the easiest all-rounder: body-safe, non-porous and simple to clean. Glass is the firmer, weighted alternative. TPE and PVC are softer and cheaper but porous, so clean them carefully and use a condom if sharing.
What size should I start with?
Smaller than you expect. Around 5 to 6 inches of length and a modest girth suits most first-timers, and girth is what you'll notice most.
What's the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?
A dildo is all shape and sensation, no motor. A vibrator adds buzz. A vibrating dildo does both.
Are glass dildos safe?
Quality glass dildos are made from toughened borosilicate glass and are designed for intimate use. Check for chips before each use and stop using one if it's damaged.
How do I clean a dildo?
Warm water and unscented soap, or a toy cleaner, after every use. Solid silicone with no motor can usually be boiled for a few minutes. Follow the care instructions on the product page and dry fully before storing.
Is delivery discreet?
Always. Plain, unbranded packaging. UK delivery is free over £50 and £5.99 below that.