Dildos

How to choose a dildo

Choosing well comes down to three things: material, shape and base. Get those right and the rest is preference.

Material first

Silicone is the one most people fall for: non-porous, easy to clean and skin-soft. Glass is firmer and weighted, and lovely for temperature play. Some realistic dildos use TPE or PVC blends, which feel softer and cost less but are more porous, so they need more careful cleaning and are best used with a condom if shared. Each product page lists its material, so check before you buy.

Shape you'll feel

A gentle upward curve finds the G-spot without hunting for it. Realistic or abstract is taste, not function. For most people, girth is felt long after length is forgotten.

A base that earns its place

A flared base is essential for anal use. A suction cup opens up hands-free play, and a harness-compatible base turns a dildo into a strap-on.

Start smaller than you think

Begin smaller than your imagination suggests, go slowly, and use more water-based lube than feels necessary. You can always be braver later.

Want buzz as well as shape? Try our vibrating dildos or realistic dildos.

Thinking about hands-free? See how to use a suction cup dildo.

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